Yes you read that correctly. The narcissist wants you to catch them cheating on you so that they can watch you suffer and fall apart in front of their eyes. They will leave clues and pieces of evidence that they are being unfaithful in plain sight for you to see and fuss over. Of course, if you bring it up, they will simply gaslight you and. Signs your <b>narcissist</b> is cheating. Jan 06, 2019 · Then in Ben’s camera, I watched as Lexy came into the room. “Wo!” he said. “Look at you, hot mama!”. “I want this to be totally awesome, our first time,” she said.